As is often the case, the recoveree is in denial, having rationalized away the dire consequences of their behavior. If an intervention is not employed in a timely manner, we could lose our loved one. I have created a system based on the Johnson Model and Arise, but have customized the process to prevent those in attendance from compromising the intervention process. As your sober coach/companion I will coach those who will be in attendance on the do's and dont's, and establish a code of conduct that will be followed during the intervention so as to not upset the recoveree, who is already in a very fragile place. Our goal is to lovingly help our loved one choose to get help.